When your parents get older, their living situation can become problematic. It’s difficult for many to accept that living alone is no longer a safe option. However, there are several primary indications that it may, in fact, be time for them to find a better living arrangement that provides the assistance they need.
Choosing where to live can also seem overwhelming. While some can move in with family, others do not have that luxury. At that point, deciding on what type of senior living residence is appropriate becomes the topic of discussion. Assisted living facilities are typically considered the best “bridge option” – ideal for those who don’t require constant medical care, but may need some assistance with daily tasks, such as grooming, bathing, or cooking.
This article will explore some signs that it may be time for your loved one to move from total independence to a safe, supportive community.
When is More Assistance Appropriate?
It can be difficult for people close to the situation to identify the signs that their loved one needs assistance. There can be obvious situations that require a move – such as a debilitating injury – but not all decisions are quite so clear-cut. Families of seniors can help them immensely by staying vigilant and watching for the subtle signs that their loved one is struggling alone.
Balance and Falling Becomes an Issue: If someone who lives alone falls, they may go without help for an extended period. If your loved one is having trouble with balance and has fallen, it may be an indication that living alone is unsafe. If moving seems an overreaction, consider a medical alert pendant or voice-activated assistant like Alexa to alert someone if needed.
Health Issues are Worsening: Declining health is a significant concern for many seniors, and it might be smart to move them into an assisted living facility before chronic illness makes daily life too overwhelming. If you are worried about their health trajectory, speak with their doctor about whether the care provided in an assisted living facility would benefit them. Remember – whenever possible, involve your loved one in these discussions.
Managing Medications Becomes Confusing: If a senior isn’t keeping up with their medication regimen – or is taking too much or too little of their medication – it can have devastating effects on their health. You can begin by creating a daily medication tray – but if they still struggle to remember, it may be time to consider a move to assisted living or another residence that will ensure they take what they need.
Activities of Daily Living (ADLs) are Difficult: Once someone can no longer cook for themselves or safely bathe regularly, it is best to get them full-time care. This can take the form of a live-in caregiver or family member, or a move to assisted living. An added benefit of these arrangements is that without the stress of trying to complete all these tasks on their own, your loved one will be less anxious and freer to enjoy their days. This will also address another common problem among seniors who live alone – the tendency not to eat and hydrate sufficiently.
Decreased Ability to Drive: If your loved one can’t drive safely any longer, it limits their ability (and desire) to get to doctor’s appointments or the grocery store. In addition, at this stage, they tend to self-isolate, no longer going to the events and places that are important to them, such as church or clubs. If they don’t feel comfortable utilizing ride shares and you cannot drive them, an assisted living community may be the answer. It provides opportunity for social engagements and can also arrange for or provide transportation when needed.
While there are many options to obtain assistance for your senior loved one, we would love for you to consider A Banyan Residence. Our facilities offer a full continuum of compassionate and professional care, from respite care services to assisted living and memory care. Call today for a tour of one of our communities, located in Venice and The Villages.
