In our last post, we examined some of the top indicators that your loved one might need some help, whether that be a full-time caregiver or a move into assisted living. But as we were writing that article, we realized there were many more than five signs that you may notice in regard to the needs of seniors – so this piece will continue the conversation. Be sure to read Part 1 here.
More Indications that Your Loved One Needs Assistance
Inability to manage home or yard upkeep: For seniors, it can be challenging to keep up with household chores. If your loved one isn’t doing necessary housework, an assisted living facility may help reduce their stress and provide a safer and cleaner home. Although your senior may not wish to give up their home (for many good reasons), the upkeep may be too much for them. A gentle conversation about a change for the better should focus on the fact that they won’t have to worry about maintenance and chores.
Pets seem neglected: An inability to properly care for their animals might indicate immobility or cognitive issues for seniors. Some assisted living facilities allow pets to move in with their owners. Consider finding one that does if your loved one has a beloved pet.
They get lost or disoriented outside of the home: Have you noticed your loved one wandering out of their home without a clear sense of where they’re going? Wandering often indicates the presence of dementia. Speak with their physician about a potential move – often, seniors who have dementia benefit from living in an assisted living facility/memory care community that will make their life safer and less confusing.
Changes in mood or aggressive behavior: Aggressive behavior is often associated with cognitive decline and may signal a need for a change of living situation. Professional memory care facilities have staff who are trained to handle these emotional swings with compassion.
They seem unhappy: Even if your loved one can still care for themselves, life can get lonely for seniors. Sometimes, a change in living situation (into a facility with many potential friends and activities) can make a world of difference.
They’ve begun to isolate: If your family member has stopped showing an interest in activities they once enjoyed, sit them down for a heartfelt talk. Are they scared to drive – or unable to drive? Are they now uncomfortable participating in social events that used to make them happy? An honest conversation about why they spend so much time at home can help you get to the root of any problems that might indicate they should move to an assisted living facility.
They don’t have a supportive community or regular visits from friends/family: Is there someone who regularly checks in on them at home? Does your senior keep regular social engagements or have peers they can relate to? Most senior housing options offer such a community, and assisted living facilities have a staff to supervise patients 24/7.
Friends or neighbors have expressed concern: If this happens, talk to them about what they observe. People who see your family member more frequently than you may have noticed behaviors that are concerning.
Their current caregiver is suffering from burnout: Being a caregiver is hard work, both physically and emotionally. If you are providing full-time care for your senior loved one, it may become impossible to continue to provide adequate care. If that’s the case, your loved one may benefit from a professional caregiver or a full-time senior residence.
For Seniors, the Future Begins Today
Deciding to put your loved one into assisted living is a difficult choice to make, but know that the sooner you start, the better. Many of the best facilities have waitlists that move slowly. Getting your loved one on the waitlist well before they are ready will ensure they get a prime spot when the time comes.
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