It is not always the individual who chooses to move into an adult living residence. In fact, the family typically initiates the decision to move into an assisted living facility. Loved ones most often act out of concern for their family member’s security and safety, determining that they should no longer live independently. This can be a difficult decision, as not everyone may agree on the necessity and timing of such a life transition, and assisted living moving day may be stressful.

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However, there are some signs which may indicate that a move to assisted living is appropriate. There may be noticeable emotional symptoms such as withdrawal and isolation or negative attitudes. Fear and anxiety may be manifesting as stomach aches, decreased appetite, and sleep issues. Decreased mobility, growing instability, or cognitive decline are all signs that a move may be necessary. While friends and family may see clearly that it is time to make such a move, the individual may find it difficult to give up independence or the way of life they are accustomed to.

The following lists provide tips to help your loved ones adjust and settle into their new lifestyle.

Tips for Adjusting to Assisted Living

  • Be sure to let staff know personal preferences, routines, and dietary needs.
  • Keep the room stocked with a generous supply of favorite snacks and drinks.
  • If the resident enjoys music and movies, provide a CD player and DVD/BlueRay player. Make sure they have copies of all of their favorite tracks and movies to watch when they want to relax and experience something familiar.
  • Advise the staff about favorite activities and brainstorm ways to allow the resident to continue with these pastimes. If they love baking, arrange supervised time in the kitchen. If they love gardening, provide supplies to create some window boxes.
  • Be sure that the resident has an appropriate wardrobe and shoes and that the clothes they bring from home still fit.
  • Create a schedule of the times your loved one can expect you to call or visit. Be sure to stay consistent with your promised connection times.
  • Arrange for the staff to arrange Facetime or Zoom calls so you can see each other in-between visits.

Tips for Downsizing to a Smaller Apartment

If you are transitioning into assisted living, chances are you are moving into a much smaller living space.  Here are several tips to help you downsize and stay organized in your new home.

  • Bring a Scrapbook: Seniors can rarely bring all of their precious keepsakes and may decide to give them to family members. Help them by taking photos of all these objects, pieces of furniture, and keepsakes and create a scrapbook so they can still enjoy their belongings and memories.
  • Downsize Furniture: Instead of bringing furniture from a larger home, consider getting smaller pieces, such as a loveseat and recliner, instead of a full living room set. Look for multi-purpose furniture, such as a storage unit that can double as an entertainment center.
  • Maximize Storage: There may be smaller areas for storage than you are used to, so look for ways to exploit empty space. Purchase small cabinets as end tables, and store off-season clothing under the bed. You can even purchase decorative chests or trunks to be utilized as storage and furniture simultaneously.
  • Use Shelving: Add extra shelves in closets and install corner shelving and bookcases. Keep less frequently used items on the highest shelves, and keep a small step stool or ladder in a nearby closet.
  • Simplify in the Kitchen: Many kitchen items become unnecessary when you move into assisted living. You likely will not be entertaining more than one or two people in your room, nor will you be cooking large meals. You can downsize down to two or three sets of dishes and silverware and a few necessary pots and pans.
  • Don’t Buy in Bulk: You may be used to purchasing in bulk to save money, but it may be difficult to store all of your purchases in a smaller room. Look to purchase smaller quantities or ask family members to store the excess and bring you replacement supplies when they visit.
  • Organize Twice a Year: Every few months, evaluate your wardrobe and closets, and donate anything you have not been wearing.  You can also look through books, games, or anything else you no longer have an interest in.

Moving into any new stage of life can be overwhelming, but utilizing these tips can help maintain control and limit stress. Whether for yourself or a loved one, allow time and room for adjustment – and then get ready to enjoy a wonderful new stage of life.

A Banyan Residence is a professional assisted living and memory care center located in The Villages.