There are many who seem to “grow old gracefully,” with seemingly no cares of concerns. Regardless of how well we handle aging, everyone has common concerns as they grow older. No one can really know how “old age” feels until they are experiencing it, making it necessary for friends and family members to give grace to those they love who are struggling with some very normal concerns.
By understanding the most common anxieties that aging seniors face, you can assist your family member to navigate their fears. By walking with them through their struggle and offering insight as to how to face their fears, you can lower their stress levels and help them find balance.
- Sense of Purpose : Our society has a penchant for “aging out” our elderly population, but the recent pandemic has isolated seniors in ways we never imagined possible. Many have struggled to find a way to feel useful and part of a family. Whether showing them how to call grandchildren over video conference, or helping them to establish new relationships with others in their community residence – senior need to stay involved in life.
- Financial Wellness: Senior citizens have longer life expectancies, but care has also gotten more expensive. This results in many worrying about their retirement savings lasting long enough for them to live comfortably. Your loved one may be anxious about financial concerns, especially if they were nervous about finances their whole life. Have a discussion regarding available savings and budget, and help with any financial strategies which will help in the short term.
- Mobility Challenges: A residence which provided safety can turn into an obstacle course for someone who is aging. Limited vision and mobility issues (i.e. trouble climbing stairs) can make it nearly impossible to navigate their own home; while shaky balance can create dangerous situations. Remaining safe and mobile are important priorities for seniors who want to remain independent. you can help by clearing their living space, and working with them to maintain strength and confidence.
- Daily Life Concerns: Most senior citizens have seemingly mundane concerns about the aging process, including how to accomplish everyday chores. If you are not available or do not live close by, a professional service can help prepare meals, clean the house, or assist wit hygiene. Assisted living facilities may be an ideal solution, as they offer independent living with the necessary experienced oversight.
- Full Time Caregiving: Many seniors are anxious about requiring more help as they age, whether it be for physical or memory-related reasons. They worry about being a burden on their loved ones, or needing more care than they can realistically afford. Concerns about insurance add to the anxiety. Families can help by discussing options before the time comes, involving them in the decision making and planning according to their desires.
- Memory Loss: One of the biggest concerns that seniors share regarding aging is a fear of Alzheimer’s disease and dementia. While there is no effective cure offered to those with Alzheimer’s, your loved one can benefit from proper diet, exercise and mind-engaging activities which contribute to brain health and keeping cognitive health as long as possible .
- Dying: No one lives forever, but the uncertainty of nearing one’s end of life is one of their largest concerns. You can help ease this anxiety by talking openly about their wishes, ensuring they live in an environment where they feel comfortable and safe, and letting them speak freely about how they are feeling. At A Banyan Residence, we believe in making your loved one’s life as engaging and fulfilling as possible, for as long as possible. If you have questions or concerns about aging and are looking for a Venice area assisted living or memory care solution – give us a call.
