Everyone ages differently, and the quality of life for one person at 75 years old can differ significantly from that of one of their peers. A person’s overall health, mobility, and state of mind can have a considerable impact on their ability to live independently, and the deciding factors are different for each individual. While most seniors would prefer to age in place – that is, to stay in their own home for as long as possible – for many, it simply isn’t possible. Several senior living options are available for older adults who can’t live alone or have no family to move in with. But when is it appropriate to move into an assisted living or memory care center?

Of course, the decision is personal and unique to each individual. That being said, there are several factors that a senior and their family should consider when determining the best place for them to live.

The Decision for Senior Living Residences

We write this article understanding that this decision can be difficult. Admitting that it is time to give up their fully independent life is emotional for any senior. But families – and the seniors themselves – should remember that their safety and well-being are the most important consideration.

Physical health and stamina: If your loved one is still relatively healthy and strong, living alone may be a valid option. However, if they are prone to falling or are frequently losing their balance, it could be dangerous not to have someone else close by. Assess if your loved one experiences dizzy spells, chest pains, or any other health issue that may indicate a problem. If they still wish to stay in their own home, you may wish to consider a life-alert type device for them to wear in order to call for help if necessary.
Ability to perform ADLs: Activities of daily life (ADLs) include cooking, cleaning, and basic hygiene practices – such as bathing and brushing teeth. If your family member can still care for themselves in these ways, they may be capable of aging in place for a while longer. However, if they need help performing these basic activities, it may be time to consider senior living. (An intermediary step may be to hire a home care worker who can prepare meals, do laundry and run errands.)
Emotional health: As they age, seniors often begin to feel trepidation about venturing too far from home. While this may be safer, it also tends to isolate an older adult who is used to socializing, seeing friends, and engaging with the world. Seniors are often susceptible to feelings of isolation, loneliness, and anxiety that can significantly impact their well-being and mental and physical health. If your loved one’s personality has changed and seems sad, disconnected, or aloof, they may need to move to someplace where they have meaningful interaction.
Mental health: Unfortunately, losing one’s cognitive ability is a part of aging for many senior citizens. The early stages of dementia may look vastly different from one person to the next but often manifest as confusion, excessive forgetfulness, and even panic. Even mild dementia can impact an individual’s ability to take their medications properly and put them in danger if they forget to turn off the stove or leave the front door wide open. Family members can typically determine when their loved one’s condition and demeanor have changed enough to warrant concern, but having them assessed by a medical professional is always advised.

Senior living options such as assisted living can address many of the above concerns while providing a happy and safe environment for your loved one to thrive and engage in life again. If you are a senior citizen considering your next move or a family member looking for the best senior living option, we invite you to call A Banyan Residence in The Villages for a private tour.